Anonymous asked:
I have an amazing Dom, thankfully because I kind of stumbled into him. But I always feel like I'm getting more out of this than he is. I get time, attention, praise, growth, guidance, all that good stuff as well as most of the orgasms. Of course he gets time and attention and I try to give him praise but he ends up deflecting it back to me. Why do all this work for someone else? He's tried explain that watching me grow is a reward for him but I just don't understand it.